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Gay Judge, Gay Ruling?

This January, Vaughan Walker, Chief Judge of the U.S. District Court for the Northern District of California, began hearing arguments for Perry v. Schwarzenegger, a federal constitutional challenge to California’s Prop 8. As avid readers of this blog and mass media consumers, I’m sure you’re familiar, as this historic trial certainly isn’t lacking in publicity.

Last week, The San Francisco Chronicle publicly outed Walker, calling his sexual orientation “the biggest open secret” in the trial. According to the article, Walker has never made an effort to hide or widely broadcast his sexuality; yet because of the high-profile nature of the case and the controversy surrounding same-sex marriage, his sexual orientation is now an issue. Executive director of the National Organization for Marriage, Brian Brown, has come out swinging, attacking Walker for being biased, explaining that Walker has taken a thoroughly prejudiced stance throughout the trial. Regardless of your personal feelings about same-sex marriage, Walker’s role in this trial is to fairly and impartially rule, based on evidence and testimony, on whether or not Prop. 8 is unconstitutional.

Although Brown has not said that that Walker’s sexual orientation is directly affecting his judicial responsibilities, it begs the question: Does Walker’s sexuality have any bearing on his ability to fairly preside over this case? What I find most interesting, is that if Walker has in fact been biased during the entire trial, why are we just hearing about said prejudice now that we know he’s gay? Interesting coincidence.

If Judge Walker was a straight man, would we assume that he’d be biased in favor of supporting Prop. 8? He didn’t seek out the case; it was assigned to him randomly. He hasn’t publicly commented on the above issue, and pushing this a bit farther, does his alleged bias in this incredibly public trial cast aspersions as to his credibility and decisions ruled in other cases? Ironically, when Walker was a private attorney, he successfully represented the U.S. Olympic Committee in its efforts to prevent the San Francisco Gay Olympics from infringing on its name and his judicial nomination was delayed because of his representation.

As a vocal LGBT ally and communicator, this is just another unfortunate example of tying sexuality to prejudice, and assuming that one’s sexual orientation inherently controls and dictates actions and beliefs. Leave me a comment below, I'd love to hear your thoughts.

Local School takes LGBT stance...sort of

At Fleishman-Hillard, I recognize that I am fortunate to work at a place where my sexual orientation is not an issue, and in fact, it is embraced (they let me blog about it!). Not all members of the LGBT community have the same luxury, whether that means being out at work or out at school.

Here in Cleveland, we have a slew of great colleges and universities. One in particular is John Carroll University. According to its Web site, John Carroll University earned the #7 ranking among Midwest colleges and universities that grant master’s degrees in the 2009 edition of  U.S. News & World Report’s “America’s Best Colleges.” This is the 20th consecutive year John Carroll has achieved high rankings in this comprehensive source of college and university profiles.

So, it's seemingly a well-respected institution. However, during the past week, the University has received some intense focus from the LGBT community. Like any academic institution, John Carroll has a "Nondiscrimination Policy" in place to prevent explicit discrimination and wrongful termination of employees based on race, gender, but this one does NOT protect for sexual orientation. Which means that technically, if you are a LGBT employee of John Carroll, you aren't necessarily as protected as your colleagues.

In an effort to address the issue, John Carroll proposed issuing a community standards statement that says the following:

"It must be recognized that gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender people and those questioning their sexual identity constitute one vulnerable population within the University Community. Hence, this University states unequivocally that gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender students, faculty, staff administrators and alumni are welcome members of the University community, as the children of God they are..."

That's a big first step for a religious institution, right? Well, there's more to it. Students and faculty are still concerned that the University won't change their official nondiscriminatory policy to also protect the LGBT community. While they will issue the statement above, they won't change the actual policy because is based on state and federal statutes, which do not cover sexual orientation. And, students aren't happy about the university not fully changing their policy-- they staged a sit-in on the basketball court at a recent game to protest the university's position.

 

 

The issue is still under debate, but what's not being discussed are the marketing implications for John Carroll. More and more high school students are coming out, and in doing so, are looking for colleges and universities that provide a safe haven to express their individuality. So, for John Carroll to be willing to issue a statement that essentially says that they are valued members of the community is a good thing. But it's not a full-out policy change. It's almost like "Don't Ask, Don't Tell." Unless they change the non-discriminatory policy to include the LGBT community, the university will lose faith among important constituencies and students will go to competing institutions that embrace and protect us for who we are.

I think back to when I was reviewing agencies for job opportunities. Fleishman-Hillard actively markets the Out Front practice, which is smart business because it attracts LGBT professionals to the agency (and let's face it...this industry has a lot of us). It got my attention, and I sent it my resume. John Carroll has the same marketing opportunity-- change the policy, and use it as a way to reach an entire new audience.

What do you think about the situation at John Carroll? Weigh in.

Have a great week.

  

 

And the Nominees Are...

"It's that time of year, when the world falls in love...every song you hear, seems to say..Sandra Bullock, for the Blind Side."

Ok, I took some liberties with that classic Christmas carol, but this week marked the announcement of the 82nd Annual Academy Awards! Nomination day has always been like Christmas morning for me. I love the anticipation, and I love the forced smiles from those who expected to get a nomination but in turn got a snub from their peers.

Let's break down the nominations for just a moment:

• Best Film: Now I know that Avatar is out of this blue world, and The Hurt Locker was a stunning portrayal of the front lines of the Iraq war, but let's give it to Precious. The movie gripped me from beginning to end, and the performances were so nuanced and emotional. And an added bonus? The film provided an extremely positive portrayal of a lesbian couple. (By the way, did we really need 10 nominations for Best Film?)
• Best Actor: Based on what I have seen, I've got to give it to Jeremy Renner with The Hurt Locker. Saw Crazy Heart over the weekend, and while Jeff Bridges was good, it was a one-note (pun intended) performance. It felt like this year's version of The Wrestler. Kudos to the Academy for recognizing Colin Firth for his portrayal of a tormented man in the 1960s choosing between being open and being quiet. That film is on my must-see list, so I reserve the right to change my vote.
• Best Actress: I'm just going to say it. Sandy B. doesn't deserve it. Sure, she was great. Sure, it was different for her. But these awards are about acting, not just dying your hair blond and changing your accent. For me, this is a toss up between The Divine Ms. M (Meryl Streep) and Gabourey Sidibe in Precious. Saw An Education, and that was kind of a snooze fest.
• Best Director: Part of me wants Kathryn Bigelow to win the Oscar for The Hurt Locker and become the first female director to do so. But the louder part of me wants Lee Daniels to win for Precious, so that he can become the first openly gay African American director to not only get nominated, but win.
• Other categories: Mo'Nique all the way. "Take it All" from Nine please (that was the only good part of that film).

I echo Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) President Jarrett Barrios in applauding the Academy this week for recognizing films that use the cinematic storytelling device to shed light on the LGBT community. In a statement this week, Barrios said that “images like the love and commitment between Ms. Rain and her partner in Precious and the isolation felt by George in A Single Man spark conversations that help Americans embrace their gay and transgender friends, family members and neighbors. We need to advocate for more gay-inclusive stories to be shared with mainstream audiences because as more people see these images, they realize that we have the same aspirations, hopes, and deserve the same chances to take care of our loved ones and families.” 

The movies are a powerful medium. Through film, we have the opportunity to entertain mainstream audiences while also educating them about our LGBT community, and Hollywood is slowly providing more and more opportunities for LGBT writers, and actors, to share their story. Someday, the world on screen and the world in real life will merge and we can educate through open dialogue, minus the sound effects.

What do you think about this year's nominations? Are you as nervous as I am about Steve Martin and Alec Baldwin hosting together this year?

One more thing-- anyone else as confused as I am about Lost this week? Did the writers really have to bring back Juliet again only to kill her AGAIN? My emotions can't handle it. They have 16 episodes left to explain themselves. If it's easier, I am happy to take a meeting with them in Hawaii to discuss.

You Ask, I'll Tell

Hi! I’m Caitlin Russell, and I’m honored to be a new contributor to the Out Front blog. A little about me:  I’m the youngest girl in a staunchly conservative family. I grew up on a farm in the Bible Belt, a place where discussions of LGBT issues are unheard of, if not nearly taboo. In addition to being a farmer’s daughter, I’m straight. I’m a registered Republican…and I am an LGBT ally.

I put all of that out there only because it is my hope to show that allies can come from all walks of life.  It is my sincerest belief that the future success of LGBT communications hinges on the vocal support of those who may be able to convert the unreachable, educate the unwilling and demonstrate that human goodness is not tied to any political party or agenda, sexual orientation or financial standing. Hey, if I can convince my wonderful 65-year-old, Rush Limbaugh-loving father to openly support the LGBT community, then I’m confident I can provide a thought-provoking, interesting perspective on the world of LGBT communications.

Ok, I’m off my soapbox – now on to the real reason I’m blogging today.

Yesterday morning, Chairman of Joint Chiefs of Staff Admiral Mike Mullen, announced that gays should be allowed to serve openly in uniform, arguing that it is "the right thing to do." He also explained that he “cannot escape being troubled by the fact that we have in place a policy [Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell] which forces young men and women to lie about who they are in order to defend their fellow citizens.” This is the strongest statement ever released from the Pentagon, and coming from the U.S. military’s top ranking uniformed official, it’s nothing short of extraordinary.

Almost immediately, opponents to lifting DADT, such as Senator John McCain, began issuing statements proclaiming any number of reasons to why lifting DADT is a bad idea.  My favorite explanation is that allowing gays and lesbians to openly serve would create havoc in the system and discord among the troops. It seems impractical to me that, as the U.S. continues to fight wars in two different countries with our military stretched thinner and thinner, the topic of sexuality would even be an issue.

But apart from my personal beliefs, I feel that LGBT communicators must look beyond discussions of discrimination and moral convictions to educate the public on tangible reasons that DADT is a bad policy for our nation. Let’s take a look at what DADT is costing our nation. The Christian Science Monitor points out here that:

“About 66,000 gay men and lesbians, including about 13,000 on active duty, are serving currently in the US military, according to a study released last week by the Williams Institute at the University of California, Los Angeles. Since the policy's implementation, DADT has cost the military between $290 million and $500 million to pay for the discharge of individuals known to be homosexual and to recruit new service members, the report concluded. It costs the military between $23,000 and $43,000 to replace a service member who has been discharged, according to the Williams Institute.”

In addition, I would like to add that U.S. and Turkey are the only two original NATO countries that still have DADT policies in place. Since 1994, the U.S. has dismissed nearly 14,000 troops under DADT – 14,000 men and women who were willing to give their lives for our nation. In the last five years alone, almost 800 mission-critical troops, including Arabic linguists (one of the most difficult to fill and mission-critical positions in the entire military), have been dismissed.

My point is simply this. We need to look past our personal beliefs and begin informing the public about why repealing DADT is essential to the good of this nation, not only because it is wasting taxpayer money, but because it is denying our troops of vital servicepersons in a time of war.

To help assuage any remaining arguments, I’d urge everyone to read this article announcing that the U.K. is celebrating the 10th anniversary of allowing gays and lesbians to openly serve in the armed forces.  In the article, the BBC points out that while officials expected havoc and chaos to erupt once gays and lesbians were allowed to openly serve, these fears were unjustified and in reality, the change was a welcome one. See? No havoc, no chaos…

HIV in Primetime

Last month, fellow blogger Erin Grohs questioned the historic blood donation ban for gay men that arose from concerns and lack of understanding on HIV in the 1980s. And yet while Erin's post detailed some of the discoveries and greater understanding made since the ban was implemented, we still have a long way to go to bring the truth and face of AIDS and HIV out front.

Former Project Runway contestant Jack Mackenroth brought primetime visibility to the issue a few years ago, as he did nothing to hide his daily medicine regime or HIV status on the show. And while Mackenroth had to step down from the show because of an complication with his condition, his platform had been established. 

Since the show Mackenroth has used his notoriety to bring greater awareness to healthy management of HIV and a happy life that is still attainable as a positive individual. My second blog post was on Mackenroth's HIV education campaign, Living Positive by Design. And today I bring you the next installment of Mackenroth's role as positive HIV role model.

In partnership with LOGO-TV and Merck, Mackenroth created the follow public service announcement on the possibility of living a healthy, happy life for more than 20 years with HIV. While I've yet to see the PSA on LOGO or other channels, I hope the ad has a wider distribution than typical LGBT-centered stations or programming. This spot is educational to everyone -- helping our allies and straight colleagues see a different side of HIV.

What's your thought on the ad? Better yet, what are your thoughts on HIV? If we're ever going to find a cure, we've got to start talking about the issue often and honestly. Help start the conversation with a comment below. 

Destination Wedding: Nepal?

With an economic recession that is crippling many industries around the world, companies are looking to new avenues, and new audiences, to keep business alive. One of the industries most affected right now is tourism. Let's face it-- with a large majority of the world scraping by to be able to afford basic necessities, an extended stay at an all-inclusive resort is just not in the works.

This reality is why I was so impressed with an article last week about Nepal's new commitment to the LGBT tourism industry.  Nepalese lawmaker Sunil Babu Pant has started a travel agency, Pink Mountain, to offer gay-themed tours of Nepal's major tourist sites as well as to organize wedding ceremonies. In fact, openly gay Indian prince Manvendra Singh Gohil will be marrying his partner at a Hindu temple in Kathmandu, which Pant hopes will be just the beginning of destination weddings in Nepal.

Pant points to the smart business sense behind targeting the LGBT tourism dollar-- it's an estimated industry worth US$670 million worldwide. This lucrative fact essentially guaranteed the support for Pink Mountain from Nepal's traditionally conservative tourism industry, which has set its own goal of attracting one million visitors to Nepal in 2011. This is also part of a larger evolution towards the LGBT community in Nepal-- the country's new constitution is expected to define marriage as a union between two adult individuals, regardless of gender, and to outlaw discrimination based on sexual orientation.

This is smart marketing. Identify the challenge-- in this case, a crippling economy combined with an entire decade of civil unrest. Address an unmet need-- many Asian countries discriminate against open members of the LGBT community. Create an innovative solution-- attract a new audience (LGBT) to Nepal by creating specific packages, and a culture, that embraces the unique value proposition of the LGBT community.

I give Pant, and all organizations in Nepal, credit for thinking outside the box. It's already working-- one lesbian couple from Massachusetts want to hold their nuptials in Mustang, high in the Himalayas.

What do you think about this concept? Would you visit Nepal in light of these advancements?

  

Life @ 30

 This weekend, I am doing something I thought would never happen.

I am turning 30.

Before you start to shower me with "You don't look a day over 29!" or "It's not as bad as turning 40!", it's ok.  I am starting to embrace it. Why? A couple of reasons:

1. I always welcome days that are all about me, and gifts that correspond with those days.
2. It means a whole new decade.

I was thinking about what it means for me to be turning 30.. and turning 30 as a gay man. Instead of using this space as a therapy session to help me release the white-knuckle grip I have on 29, I thought I would look at this from a different, more professional perspective. How should companies market to me, a gay man turning 30? What's the best way to engage with me?

Some suggestions, all you chief marketing officers who read this blog:

1. Recognize that my "nightlife" does not involve club hopping or LGBT happy hours. I prefer to spend my nights with my family, or with my partner. This means reaching me at home. Advertise on the channels I watch. Send LGBT-sensitive materials to my house.
2. I love to travel. I'm at the age (and with no children) where I can plan a great vacation somewhere. Tell me you understand my needs as a frequent LGBT traveler. Understand the hot-spots we frequent, give us discounts, or create a LGBT professional network where we can earn points by flying with your airline. More importantly, show us you support our community by sponsoring our events and causes.
3. Speaking of travel, if you are a hotel, try to expand your definition of "family friendly" by incorporating same-sex families and children. We like a good beach/water-slide as much as the next person.
4. I also love the stage. Meaning, I like to go see plays and musicals every once in awhile (i.e. all the time). The non-profit/arts community is really struggling in this economy. I could really get on board with a company who took the time to lend financial support to struggling theater districts around the country.
5. TV and movies are a personal obsession (shock!). Get behind programs/networks/movies who incorporate LGBT characters. Applaud groundbreaking shows that dare to open our closet.
6. My job is important to me, which means that I am always looking for professional development opportunities. Show me leaders in your company who are role models for the LGBT community. Share your best practices on how you engage with us.
7. Shopping can be therapy. If you are a retailer, create some opportunities to market LGBT specific products. And if you happen to be a luggage manufacturer/designer--listen up. I want a fabulous set of luggage. I don't want the traditional black/grey/brown suitcase. I want color. I want patterns. I want fabulousness.  And, if you are an electronics retailer, lord knows I spend a lot of money with you. Turn around and spend some money on our community.
8. Don't call it "chick fiction" or "chick flick." If I am told one more time that the Meryl Streep movie I am going to see, or the "Shopaholic" book I am about to read, is for "chicks," I will scream. Granted, I will still read/see both, but I will shout the whole time. Recognize that a good movie, or a good book, is simply that-- good. Don't tell me what sex will enjoy it most.
9. Holidays are especially a favorite time for me-- so make it even better by giving me card/flower/imagery options that recognize that I'm not a father of two bringing flowers home to the wife for the holiday.
10. Take the time to get to know me as a unique consumer. I promise you, it will be worth your investment.

So happy birthday to me. I'm taking the weekend to celebrate, with those I love the most. And, I am making my mom bake 30 cupcakes. It's only fair, since turning 30 is actually her fault. 

How old are you turning this year? What do you wish companies knew about you?

Until next week (when I am 30).

Get Your Facts...Gay?

Today I attended a communications luncheon with a panel predicting the trends and issues ahead for communicators in 2010. Obviously, much of the conversation focused on the economy, the continuing explosion of digital media and its catalyst agent of change on traditional media, corporations and government who are trying to deliver their message amidst a growing sea of information.

During the panel discussion, one of the panelists with ChicagoNow noted media's changing role of providing credibility to content and brands' needs to be factual and transparent. Trust is paramount for success in our information-overload culture, and everyone is searching for those sources. To that point of searching, a fellow panelist also commented on YouTube's status as the second largest search engine on the planet. 

The power of credibility, truth and video is no more evident than in Rob Tisinai's quick videos which tackle some of the biggest inaccuracies about gays in simple, direct truth-telling.

Here Rob's newest video examines the largely believed falsehood that gays are the primary perpetrators of child molestation. I encourage to watch this and his many other videos for simple truths on www.wakingupnow.com to combat many inaccuracies spoken about the LGBT community. 

As the panelists discussed today, more than anything people are looking for sources they can trust. We try to be that here on the Out Front Blog for LGBT communication issues. Being out front is only as effective as our message -- and Rob offers some a great example of keeping things factual, simple and impactful.

Let's make 2010 and our conversations just that -- factual, simple and impactful.

CBS Fouls Before the Big Game?

Contrary to what those who know me personally may think, I do like college football -- especially my USF Bulls and the Gators from childhood. I don't however though like that every year the biggest sports day of the year falls on or near my birthday. Talk about a dichotomy! I'm always aware of the Super Bowl and it's coverage, as I successfully try to plan my annual celebration of drinks, shopping and showtunes around the hyper-masculine festivities of food, football and friends.

Needless to say, the past few days I've been closely following the story of CBS's decision to largely approve conservative advocacy group Focus on the Family's (with its typically audience polarizing leader Dr. James Dobson) ad for the Super Bowl with UF star quarterback Tim Tebow. CBS came under fire from LGBT organizations and women's advocacy groups because many believe the ad will advocate pro-life beliefs, as Tebow's mother ignored doctors' recommendations to abort her pregnancy despite having contracted a serious infection.

While a definite proponent of the first amendment (we couldn't have the Out Front Blog without it), a marketplace of multiple and at times conflicting opinions, and the UF Gators, this issue gets stickier because in 2004 CBS denied the United Church of Christ's advertisement on tolerance, which included visual nods to gay couples, interracial couples and other marginalized communities.

Until today, CBS had been quiet on the issueand one LGBT blog noted Tebow's comments on always standing up for what he believes in. Today though CBS told the Los Angeles Times that it had eased the restrictions on advocacy ads, allowing those that are "responsibly produced." The network also noted that they would allow other advocacy groups to purchase the few remaining $2.5 million and $2.8 million ad spots if interested.

Only February 7 will tell whether Focus on the Family's ad with Tebow is responsible -- both in it's production and message. We definitely will cover the ads, and who got things right and wrong from an LGBT communications perspective here on the blog. However, the stories and actions thus far raise some critical communication questions:

1. Is the United Church of Christ ad (seen here) from six years ago produced responsibly? I think so, as it's addressing tolerance -- and not just for a particular marginalized group. So why then was this ad denied then and Focus on the Family's yet-to-be-seen ad accepted today?
2. Was the ease in CBS's restrictions communicated broadly to all organizations in advance of this year's game? If not, why so and how did Focus on the Family hear about the news?
3. What message is Focus on the Family sending to its employees who were laid off this past year due to financial issues when it purchases a Super Bowl ad with a top sports athlete spokesperson? The organization has stated the ad is made possible from significant donations separate from its operating fund.
4. Finally, is the Super Bowl a place for advocacy or politically-charged advertisements? I really like CBS Sports Columnist Gregg Doyel's column last week on the topic.

I guess if we're moving to this new era of Super Bowl ads, I hope LGBT advocacy organizations consider, and if appropriate, purchase an ad to get our messages out in front of a large audience. What are your thoughts? Do you agree with Doyel? Do you not care and just want to see the game? Let us know in the comments below.

Sorry, Sir, Your Blood’s Too…Gay

January is National Blood Donor Month, honoring the nearly four million U.S. citizens that donate blood each year and serving as a reminder that every day approximately 39,000 units of blood are required in hospitals and emergency rooms.  I’m definitely patting myself on the back right now, as I’ve donated blood virtually every year for the past 10 years. In addition to weight (I've never had an issue meeting that prerequisite) and age requirements, a potential donor cannot be a man who has engaged in gay sex. A quarter of a century ago, the U.S. FDA instituted what has affectionately been termed the “gay blood ban,” prohibiting any man who has had sex with another man since 1977 from giving blood. 

Back in the 1980s, in response to the overwhelming AIDs crisis, banning gay men from donating blood was thought of as a way to keep the nation’s blood supply as “clean” as possible. This was based on the idea that men who have had sex with other men are at higher risk of contracting HIV and hepatitis, posing health risks to potential blood recipients. Interestingly enough, I could have an intimate evening with say, Neil Patrick Harris, and give blood 12 months later, but under the rules, NPH can’t donate if he’s engaged in gay sex…ever. It doesn’t matter if you’re in a serious, monogamous relationship, have been celibate since 1978 or have an incredibly rare blood type, like AB negative – if you’re a gay man, the FDA still says no.

I can try to understand the fear and the subsequent rationale between excluding high-risk groups from donating blood, especially considering how much less was known about HIV/AIDs back in the early 1980s. The fact remains that this ban, thanks to more information about HIV/AIDs and extensive blood testing post-donation, is not only antiquated but completely unnecessary. It furthers the idea that HIV/AIDs is a gay-only disease, fostering discrimination based on sexual orientation rather than scientific fact.  The American Red Cross, America’s Blood Centers and the AABB have all recommended to the FDA that the blood ban on gay donors be ended, changing the deferral time to match those of heterosexual donors, yet the ban remains in effect.

Thanks to modern science, education and awareness campaigns, we all know how HIV is transmitted. More importantly, donated blood undergoes an extensive screening process during the time it’s donated and when it actually gets used, including testing for the HIV virus. Yes, HIV/AIDs occurrences among gay and bisexual men are still incredibly high, yet if you look at the age/race demographics,black and Hispanic communities have been particularly affected by HIV/AIDs in the U.S.  In 2007, 50 percent of all new HIV diagnoses were in black people…could you imagine the social uproar should the FDA decide that that the black community posed too great a risk for blood donation? I'd love to hear your thoughts.

Around the "GLOBE" with Alaska Air

Over the weekend, I was checking out The Advocate's website for the latest LGBT news and info. On the top of the site, there was a banner ad for Alaska Airlines/Horizon Air "Gay Travel Event Calendar." Ever the curious frequent flyer, I clicked through to the site to check out more.

It's actually pretty cool. It's a site that lists LGBT events around the world in the cities that Alaska Air serves. And I'm talking events like Gay Days at Disney World, Dinah Shore Week (who knew?!?), and the GLAAD Media Awards. Even better, some of the events had a discount code to book travel. It got me thinking...is this just smart business and smart marketing, or does Alaska Airlines have a real commitment to our LGBT community?

So, I did some more digging. Turns out, Alaska Airlines is making a real effort. They have the "GLOBE team," an employee resource group made up of employees focused on reaching out to the LGBT communities across their route network. They are reaching out by collaborating and supporting LGBT causes and organizations, including Out & Equal and the AIDS walk. Additionally, the airline is making sure that its LGBT employees are feeling included and appreciated, including equal benefits to partners. In fact, for the second year in a row, Alaska Airlines was among 300 U.S. businesses to receive a perfect 100% score by the Human Rights Campaign Foundation in the 2010 Corporate Equality Index for its treatment of LGBT employees, customers and investors. And importantly, the effort is sponsored by the airline's chief financial officer and executive vice president Glenn Johnson, which means that the Alaska's c-suite understands the value of our community, both internally and externally.

I've not had the opportunity to fly Alaska Air, but I'm now going to try and make it happen. Rule 101 of LGBT marketing is to include us-- include us in your outreach, include us in your corporate social responsibility initiatives, and include us as your employees. If you do this, we'll be loyal to your brand. Alaska gets this, and during a time when the economy is challenging the entire travel industry, I encourage Alaska to keep it up. It will pay dividends in terms of ROI and customer base expansion.

Thank you Alaska Air. To borrow from one of your competitors, the LGBT community "loves to fly, and it shows..."

What airlines do you admire for their LGBT commitments?

One Year Later

 Happy Friday all. Don't know about you, but the weekend seems so well-deserved right now!

I remember about one year ago watching the inauguration of President Barack Obama and hoping that his mission of "change" would translate into more opportunities for the LGBT community to be involved in the inner circles of the White House and the beltway. I've talked about some of the advancements in LGBT policy since the President took his oath of office, and the high-profile appointments of LGBT administration officials.

This week, I received an e-mail from the Victory Fund, titled "Want a New Boss?" Of course, I was intrigued (and no, I don't want a new boss, in case mine is reading this....). The catchy e-mail subject drew me into the "Presidential Appointments Project," an initiative led by the Gay & Lesbian Leadership Institute to identify strong LGBT candidates to serve in the Obama administration.

Did you know that more than 100 LGBT officials are already serving in the administration? Here are some randomly selected highlights:

• Anthony Bernal- Scheduler, Office of Dr. Jill Biden
• Marisa Demeo- Associate Judge, DC Superior Court
• Fred Hochberg- Chairman, U.S. Export-Import Bank
• David Huebner- U.S. Ambassador to New Zealand
• Kathy Martinez- Assistant Secretary for Disability Employment Policy, Department of Labor
• Ellie Sue Schafer- Director, White House Visitors Office
• Moe Vela- Director of Operations, Office of the Vice President

Thanks to all who serve (and I love their titles!). And, thanks to the Gay and Lesbian Leadership Institute for working so closely with the new administration to ensure that we are represented within these circles and for conducting outreach to our community to keep us involved and engaged.

P.S. I know the "Hope for Haiti" telethon is scheduled for tonight on all of the networks-- please watch. But, in case you have plans to be out and about tonight, you have an opportunity to donate to the Red Cross as part of the "LGBT Community Fund for Haiti," an initiative started in collaboration with Atlantis, RSVP and Olivia to help in the wake of the nightmare in Haiti. Let's show our support.

Be well.

  

A House Divided

Rightfully so, LGBT news has largely focused on the federal hearings against Proposition 8 since last Monday. I've been trying to find a way to discuss the importance of these hearings on our community and LGBT communications practice. 

Personally, I experienced the pain of complacency from my straight counterparts on the first day of hearings. Every Monday night, a small group of young people from my church meet in my home to discuss various topics and issues. The topic that night was marriage and for more than an hour, those in the room debated the elements of compatibility, the essential elements of marriage, the pain of divorce -- and never once realized that many people, some of them their friends, around the city and country were acutely attuned to the beginning discussions of lawyers and judges that would decide whether they have the right to marry the person they love.

Today, media, including the Associated Press, highlighted a bold message from a surprising influencer of the Republican party. I'm sure most of you have seen Adam Bouska's NOH8 campaign, the series of photos by the gay rights group challenging Prop 8 featuring celebrities and everyday people with duct tape across their mouth and the NOH8 logo on their face. Cindy McCain, wife of 2008 Republican presidential candidate and mother of lesbian daughter Meghan McCain, graced the NOH8 site today, endorsing pro-gay marriage efforts.

Cindy McCain's visual statement raised praise from her daughter Meghan on Twitter and an issued statement from John McCain's office stating his continued view that marriage is "between a man and a woman." As a key Republican figure, she pushes the party's fundamental stance against gay marriage with this photo -- and fully embodies the importance of being out front as an ally.

Here, as on many other sites, we highlight the remarkable power of personally knowing an LGBT individual. Countless allies, including Cindy, have been created because gay and lesbian people, like Meghan, have bravely risked their comfort and life as they knew it to share their sexuality.

As the Prop 8 arguments continue to press onward, know that important conversations must still be happening outside of the courtroom. Gays and lesbians must continue to share their life, even if they've been out for years, because our straight brothers and sisters are largely immune to the rights we're fighting for. When we honestly tell our story, we can create allies whose voice can create an echo chamber among their friends and slowly change the current understanding of love, marriage and equal rights in America.

ButtOut Ohio-- Helping LGBT Youth Become Tobacco Free

Happy Friday all. Here on the Out Front blog, we often take the time to point out smart communications campaigns that effectively target the LGBT community. Sometimes, we talk about our own work. Today is one of those days.

Today in the United States, approximately 43.4 million adults and 4.5 million adolescents smoke.Despite known health risks, new individuals become smokers every day. Nearly 6,000 youth under the age of 18 start smoking each day, with 2,000 actually becoming regular smokers.

The LGBT population has a higher smoking rate than any other minority population. Some research estimates that members of the LGBT community smoke cigarettes at rates ranging from 40 to 60 percent higher than the heterosexual population.

Data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention show 80 percent of adult smokers initiated the habit prior to turning 18 years of age. Sadly, the percentage of LGBT youth using tobacco is growing at an alarming rate. While 28 percent of straight youth self-identify as smokers, nearly twice as many (59 percent) of LGBT youth classify themselves as smokers. In fact, LGBT youth are more likely to start smoking before the age of 13 than their heterosexual peers. With such a high number of LGBT youth using tobacco now, there is a far greater chance for them to become regular smokers as they transition into adulthood. 

Studies have shown that LGBT youth are at higher risk than heterosexual youth to experience low self-esteem, feelings of alienation, depression and substance abuse issues; all of which are directly correlated to tobacco initiation and use.  And let's face it-- we don't need studies to tell us why we smoke when we are young and gay. It's an outlet to relieve stress. Some have smoking, I had show choir (which didn't help the "gay" label at the time...)

Hope for Haiti, Kudos to Spain

It’s been nearly a month since my last post, and I must share that right now, my thoughts are consumed by the aftermath of the earthquake in Haiti. While listening to NPR, I heard a quote from a doctor’s assistant explaining that literally there is NO water. According to The New York Times, it’s been estimated that the earthquake has affected three million Haitians and the death toll is expected to reach tens of thousands. I encourage everyone to donate via one of the many groups providing needed food, water and support to the people of Haiti. The Huffington Post has put together an extensive list of relief organizations here.

While looking for a blogging topic, and honestly, trying to tear myself away from photos of the destruction in Haiti, I came across, well, Spain. According to The Guardian, a Spanish 16-year-old was recently surgically transitioned from male to female, making her the country’s youngest transsexual. Spanish law sets the minimum age for sex-change operations at 18 (as do many other countries), so minors pursuing the operation must head to court and receive approval to override the existing mandate. After her parents made the formal request, judges granted permission in November and the operation was carried out in December.

She has been seeing doctors and psychiatrists for years, taking hormones since the age of 15, and sadly, has tried to commit suicide on several occasions. According to the Guardian article, as a child, she felt she had been born in the wrong body. Gina Serra, president of the Catalan Association of Transsexuals, explained it is possible from an early age for children to be conscious of these feelings, stating that, “an eight-year-old child knows already what they want to be and what they do not want to be.”

While a sex-change operation is a life-changing decision, does making transsexual people wait until the legal age of “maturity” only prolong their suffering? That’s another blog topic, I suppose.

So, shout-out to Spain for allowing a 16-year-old girl to choose the physical body representative of her gender. In the last few years, Spain has made tremendous strides within the LGBT community, passing a law two years ago that allows transsexuals (with or without surgery) to formally change their birth gender, formally making a clear distinction between sex and gender. Additionally, Spain was the third European country (behind the Netherlands and Belgium) to legalize same-sex marriage.

Words & Images Matter

While not a shattering revelation, in our world of information overload we quickly can forget how each visual, verbal or written representation of gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transgenders can have compounded impact on others' and our own understanding of our lives, our community and our part within the world. That's why GLAAD's Media Awards continue to be an important program, highlighting those films, shows, media and companies that are leading the way in positive, realistic portrayals of a global community that continues to become increasingly diverse.

Before moving on to the list of nominees for the 21st Media Awards, I wanted to first share this picture, which stopped me cold yesterday. Images do matter and this one tells a sad story of our brothers overseas.

Handcuffed and riding in the back of a truck while heckled and harassed by their community, Steven Monjeza and Tiwonge Chimbalanga headed to court to file papers with their lawyers against the "gross indecency" charge they received for holding an engagement ceremony in Malawi. What stuns me is the guy in red's expression and the eyes and faces of the couple. 

This image matters because it is a window into a world on the other side of our own where the simple act of holding a ceremony to announce your love for a person in the privacy of your own home or town is grounds for the above treatment. This image matters because it reminds of us what many LGBT individuals are fighting for here in America, as well as the current benefits we should never take for granted.

Similarly, the words of Uganada's President Museveni speaking out against the propsed anti-gay bill legislation mattered, as they turned the course of the legislation, possibly even dismantling the efforts. You can read more about that here.

Coming back to the USA, we definitely recognize and appreciate the work that GLAAD does to remind us of the importance of words and images. Each is an important link in the progress made or lost on behalf of the LGBT community. Check out all of the award nominees here or you can watch the video from GLAAD President Jarrett Barrios embedded below. I, for one, am the biggest Gleek and have appreciated the great writing and portrayal of coming out with Kurt and his father -- here's to a win for Glee.

We'd love to hear what you think about the award nominees in the comments. Have you seen or read any of the contenders? What was your opinion of them? Weigh in below and we'll all stay tuned in to see which nominees made the biggest impact. All of them, undoubtedly, matter.

Escaping It All

Wait! It's only Jan. 12 and my first post for 2010 -- and I'm already talking about getting away?! Well, many factors are at play here, primarily the fact that Chicago is heading into its long stretch of bitterly cold winds and inches of snow. But also because of the new site today from Marriott International that I saw in today's e-mail from LGBT business publication, Echelon Magazine.

While LGBT travelers aren't a new market for marketers and communicators, Marriott's new site, www.marriottgaytravel.com is a strong example of appropriately engaging with a global LGBT community of travelers. Available in four additional languages (Spanish, Portuguese, German and French), the new site is customized to provide relevant information of interests to the LGBT traveler -- including promotions, unique hospitality packages, the company's commitment and even a note from the CEO of Marriott. Take a look and give us your take in the comments below.

I liked that the hospitality brand takes it even further by offering a portion of the proceeds from some of its hospitality packages to GLAAD. Marriott also includes LGBT-owned businesses in its supplier diversity initiatives, as well as host many LGBT events in its hotels around the world. This past year the company scored 100 percent on the HRC's Corporate Equality Index for the third consecutive year and continues to be a member of the National Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce.

The message is clear -- from their actions to the site's headline: Marriott is "a hotel that makes you feel right at home."

The Monday Marriage Edition (and other musings)

Hello friends! Our apologies that we bloggers have been absent. Alas, holidays/New Year's/first week back at work got the better of us.

But, we're back and ready to blog. Couple of news items (and other random thoughts) that crossed my radar whilst away:

• Today marks the start of the debate in the California Supreme Court about Proposition 8. This morning, I heard that the Court would be broadcasting trial on YouTube--which is unprecedented. Imagine that millions around the country will have an opportunity to witness history live and uncensored. What a fantastic embrace of technology to truly reach the community which is impacted. Unfortunately, news just broke that the first few days will be blocked, as some fear witness testimony may be affected if cameras are present. I hope that the ban is lifted and that we will be able to watch this debate live. If so, will you watch?
• Last week across the Atlantic, Portugal's parliament passed a bill that allows gay marriage in the country, making it the sixth country in Europe to do so. Congrats to the LGBT community in Portugal for making this happen.
• On the Gay Games front, the Cleveland Synergy Foundation and the Federation of Gay Games finalized negotiations for the 2014 Games to be held in Ohio. I had the opportunity to be a part of these negotiations, and I was impressed by the collaborative spirit of all involved to ensure that the 2014 Gay Games will be a memorable experience for all. Speaking of Cleveland and the Gay Games, the Windy City Times named the 2014 victory for Cleveland among the top 20 LGBT sporting moments in 2009. Woo-hoo!
• Speaking of the Gay Games, Cologne 2010 seems to be coming along great. Looks like already 5,000 people have registered to participate. Are you planning to go?

Thanks for coming back to our blog in 2010. We hope to bring you fresh ideas and perspective over the coming months, and hope that you continue to give us your feedback. Let's blog again soon.  

Parting Words ...

In my first blog post, I stressed the importance of LGBT visibility, specifically for people of color. Over the past two years on this blog, I've had a chance to share my personal views on a variety of LGBT issues and discuss the incredible work that organizations are doing to promote equality each and every day. Today, I bid farewell to you as I enter the next chapter of my life. 

Being a part of this blog has been one of the most rewarding elements of my career. I've had the chance to work with colleagues and readers from across the globe in sharing our viewpoints on LGBT matters. When Ben, Steve and Eddy created this forum, they created an outlet for each of us to have a voice and make an impact on LGBT communications. I think I speak for all of us when I say that LGBT communications is an area of passion both personally and professionally. As a part of the LGBT community, we each have the power to impact change. It is up to us to ensure that the LGBT voice is as global and collaborative as possible, because when we do so, we are paving the way for the next generation of our LGBT sisters and brothers to experience greater acceptance, respect and compassion by the community at large. 

As I bid farewell to you, I would like to reiterate the three points I discussed in my first post:

1. See the Need — There is a lack of visibility, recognition, and representation. 
2. Inform and Educate Ourselves — Together, we need to see that generalizations and blanket statements will decrease our ability to touch this audience.
3. Shape the Power of Words — We need to craft our language to be culturally sensitive and conscious when practicing multicultural communications and marketing. The opportunity of touching this segment lies in knowing how to talk to us and reach us.

If you'd like to connect with me, you can find me on Twitter (@LauraN546). I look forward to hearing from you there. 

And to the blog - thank you. This blog has grown in size and captured a variety of opinions and insights. It has truly been such a rewarding experience being a part of this team and community. I will dearly miss the opportunity to share my views and learn about your opinions on the Out Front Blog, but look forward to reading the team's posts! 

"The Seven Gays of Christmas"

Festive Friday greetings to all! The countdown has begun-- less than one week until I get gift cards from family members!! Oh, and there's that Christmas thing as well. No matter what you celebrate, I wish you a happy holiday season.

Due to a wonderful concept known as vacation, this will be my last posting in 2009 (pause for dramatic effect and weeping). I thought I would take a look back over this past year and give thanks to the "seven gays of Christmas"-- those members of the LGBT community that were newsworthy (or made news) during 2009.

Sing with me now...:

• On the seventh day of Christmas, my boyfriend/girlfriend/partner gave to me, Bruce Springsteen telling me I can marry.
• On the sixth day of Christmas, my boyfriend/girlfriend/partner gave to me, Matthew Shepard helping us be hate crime free.
• On the fifth day of Christmas, my boyfriend/girlfriend/partner gave to me, Houston electing a mayor that's LGBT!
• On the fourth day of Christmas, my boyfriend/girlfriend/partner gave to me, Cleveland coming home with a Gay Games victory.
• On the third day of Christmas, my boyfriend/girlfriend/partner gave to me, Administration on Aging Secretary Kathy Greenlee.
• On the second day of Christmas, my boyfriend/girlfriend/partner gave to me, two lesbian anchors on primetime cable news TV.
• On the first day of Christmas, my boyfriend/girlfriend/partner gave to me, my friends and colleagues in the Out Front family.

You have to give me credit for that, folks.

Seriously-- it's been a pleasure blogging with you in 2009. I look forward to 2010 and what it is store for the LGBT community. Until next time, peace to all, and to all a good flight (get it? Good "flight" for those who are traveling over the holidays?!? I'll stop now.).

Ally of the Year: Cyndi Lauper

Cyndi Lauper’s True Colors album was the second record I ever owned (the first being The Bangles, Different Light, which will always hold a special place in my child-of-the-80s heart). Let’s be honest, who hasn’t spent a night (or two…or four) emotionally belting out “Youuuu with the saaaad eyes, don’t be discouraged” along with her?

Being a huge fan, as well as an out-and-proud ally for the LGBT community, I was thrilled to see that Out.com named Lauper its 2009 “Ally of the Year,” recognizing her personal and professional commitment to the LGBT community. Her True Colors Fund “seeks to inspire and engage everyone, particularly the straight community, to become active participants in the advancement of LGBT equality to ensure a strong and vibrant LGBT community.”

Working with the True Colors Tours, which have featured performers like Regina Spektor and Rufus Wainwright, the non-profit organization has raised more than $200,000 for LGBT-supportive groups like the Human Rights Campaign and PFLAG. Monies raised by the tour, as well as the True Colors Cabaret series, have also gone to fund the True Colors Residence, the first permanent supportive housing facility for LGBT youth in New York State. Located in Central Harlem, the True Colors Residence will offer 30 new studio apartments, educational services and job training to homeless young people between the ages of 18 and 24.

To all my straight allies (and straight-allies-in-training) out there, while we may not have Lauper’s fame, money or incredible style, we do have one thing in common with her: a voice. It may not have won us Grammy awards, but it does give us all the ability to loudly and proudly vocalize our support for our LGBT brothers and sisters. As we approach the holiday season and say hello to a new year, I hope Lauper’s dedication, love and overwhelming generosity can serve as examples of the kind of allies we all aspire to be.

I’d also urge the LGBT community to take a moment and tell your straight friends and family how much their love and support means to you and to the LGBT cause. Please feel free to share your thankful thoughts in the comment section of this blog – I can’t think of anything more personally rewarding than helping to spread a little more love around. ‘Tis the season!

Love Actually

Every Christmas without fail, I watch the movie "Love Actually." I typically force friends, family and whoever else will partake to watch this great holiday romantic comedy that provides countless tales of honestly sharing love with special relationships. 'Tis the season of love and those we can't help but live without!

This year many gays and lesbians have seen love in the form of marriage come into their lives or have it snatched away by the popular vote. While the crucial federal recognition of marriage doesn't remove the love shared between two people, equal marriage rights is and continues to be a primary focus of many couples daily struggles and LGBT communication.

As we look ahead to 2010 and have some free time around the holidays, I wanted to turn your attention to a great communications campaign. From our friends at Queerty, I read about Love Takes Over, a week long opinion piece campaign to America's long standing influencer, the newspaper industry. For full details of the event, you can check out the organizer's Facebook page here.

We've written here on the Out Front Blog about the opinions and leaders of LGBT organizations and conservative groups on both sides of the marriage discussion. Instead of giving us an opportunity to dissect the communication successes and failures in this ongoing debate, Love Takes Over gives us all the chance to communicate the important message in a unified and amplified voice with our neighbors and communities.

I encourage you, as you reflect on the holiday season and the emotions it brings, to share your thoughts on love and marriage equality. Whether with friends or in a news opinion piece, whether in December or as part of Love Takes Over week, it's a season of sharing and being out front. If you have stories or write a piece for Love Takes Over, share your thoughts on love, family and marriage with us here at the Out Front Blog.

Because "Christmas is the time we tell the truth." (from "Love Actually")

Grammy Nomination Creates Controversy

I’ve always been intrigued by anti-artist and the need to disseminate messages of hate. In late August, I posted about Live Nation and AEG’s concert cancellation of Jamaican reggae artist, Buju Banton. Since then, Banton continues to gain much attention from the LGBT community.

Last week, two black LGBT organizations joined forces with the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) to protest the singer’s Grammy nomination. The National Black Justice Coalition and Gay Men of African Descent have developed a petition to against Banton’s nomination for Best Reggae Album. 

The decision by GLAAD and its partners to petition Banton’s Grammy nod has created a spectrum of opinions even within the LGBT community. Some believe his album should be judged on merit alone, rather than the language it may or may not convey. Others state this nomination draws attention to his anti-gay antics. 

"We’re shocked that Buju Banton, a singer with a long record of performing a song that glorifies the murder of gay people, would be honored with a Grammy nomination, regardless of the artistic merit of any of his work," said Jim Key, the L.A. Gay and Lesbian Center’s Chief Public Affairs Officer in an EDGE interview.  Banton isn’t the first to be protested by GLAAD, and he likely won’t be the last. 

On a side note, the AP reported that Banton was arrested this weekend on cocaine charges in Florida. 

Tell us what you think about homophobic lyrics and Banton’s Grammy nomination.

Music Makes the People Come Together...

It's like I'm in my own game of "Where's Waldo?" Today, I'm blogging from the Big Apple. Looking forward to a winter weekend back in Ohio (fingers crossed for no flight delays!).

Since I'm still living the life of a professional nomad, I've been collecting my random thoughts for this week's post. Happy Friday, and here goes...

• Born in the U.S.A. I know he's the Boss, but now he really should be. This week, THE Bruce Springsteen posted the following to his site: "Like many of you who live in New Jersey, I've been following the progress of the marriage-equality legislation currently being considered in Trenton. I've long believed in and have always spoken out for the rights of same sex couples and fully agree with Governor Corzine when he writes that, 'The marriage-equality issue should be recognized for what it truly is -- a civil rights issue that must be approved to assure that every citizen is treated equally under the law.' I couldn't agree more with that statement and urge those who support equal treatment for our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters to let their voices be heard now." Go Bruce! I appreciate when artists use their communications platform to advocate for causes for which they are passionate. He came out in support of a highly debated issue, and he shared it with the masses. And now, he's got one more gay fan. Granted he had me at "Streets of Philadelphia," but still.
• Glee Fall Finale. Any television show that involves a pairing of both "And I'm Telling You" from Dreamgirls and "Don't Rain on My Parade" from Funny Girl deserves its own Nobel Peace Prize. Seriously-- Effie White and Barbara Streisand? I'm suprised there wasn't a blackout across the U.S. from all us show choir gleeks imploding.
• Speaking of Dreamgirls: Took a break last night while in NYC and decided to go see the revival of Dreamgirls at the Apollo Theater, which is celebrating its 75th anniversary. What a historic place. And what a fitting place to host this stunning revival. I don't think I've ever seen so much celebrated diversity like I did at the Apollo-- gay men, black men, white women... you name it, we were all captivated by the star turn of Moya Angela. And I'm telling you, you better get going there before it closes.
• Sadness: My mother has made cameo appearances on this blog before. On Wednesday, during our daily conversation, she told me she happened to read the paper and saw the story about the proposed anti-homosexuality bill in Uganda. Her words to me: "I read so many sad things in the paper today. It makes me scared for you. You never know what hateful people can do out there." I won't get into a discussion about what's going on in Uganda. Actually-- I can't. It's too tragic to think that such anger and intolerance still permeates our society.

Thank you Bruce, and thank you Mom, for caring about our human rights.

Talk to you next week.

(Photo Courtesy of Playbill)

Discrimination: We’re Not Lovin’ It

Earlier this week, the Transgender Legal Defense & Education Fund (TLDEF) filed a complaint against an Orlando McDonald’s on behalf of seventeen-year-old Zikerria Bellamy. Managers at the restaurant had refused Bellamy a job interview and subsequently a job after learning she was transgendered. One manager followed up those rejections by leaving Bellamy an obscene voicemail that explained why she wouldn’t be hired.

Bellamy has been living as a female for the past six years and was looking for a way to make some extra money when she applied at McDonald’s. Instead, she was laughed at by one manager when she walked into the restaurant and was verbally harassed by another - in addition to using gay slurs against her, the unidentified man on the voicemail also calls her a liar.

Now readers of this blog are well aware that Bellamy should never have been denied a job because she is transgender, let alone be the victim of anti-gay slurs. She should have been given the chance to earn a living without being refused for reasons that have zero to do with her ability to actually DO the job. Interestingly enough, Bellamy worked at another McDonald’s location for three years, so clearly she had experience working in fast-food, as well as experience working for this particular chain. Hmm…

Since the story broke, one of the McDonald’s managers has been fired. A spokesperson for the restaurant said that particular employee was not responsible for hiring and no longer worked there. There hasn’t been any mention of the second manager (the laugher, I’m guessing…?). It’s also been brought to public attention that McDonald’s has a zero tolerance policy prohibiting discrimination or harassment in the restaurant.

Counting on Hate: GLSEN Launches New SM Counter

Earlier this year, we shared a GLSEN campaign called “ThinkB4YouSpeak.” The campaign seeks to build awareness with students regarding the prevalence of homophobic and derogatory language. In its launch, GLSEN partnered with Hilary Duff and Wanda Sykes to create PSAs that drew attention to the issue. So, what’s next?

Over the past few months, GLSEN has developed a slur counter that tracks the total number of the terms “fag,” “dyke,” and “… so gay” on Twitter. Yesterday, there were 862 mentions of the word fag. I love GLSEN’s use of real-time and real uses of hateful language. As of June 2009, there were 200,000 active Twitter users. If these hateful words continue to rise as the number of Twitter users increase, we can only assume that more words of hate will be perpetuated.

Today, nine out of 10 LGBT students report being harassed in school in the last year. If these hateful messages also live online and in greater magnitude, how can we help protect our youth and destroy these harmful, hateful homophobic remarks? Tell us what you think!

Go here to learn more about the ThinkB4YouSpeak Campaign.

Make Your Holiday Dollars Have Greater Impact: Q&A with Michael Lamb of Echelon Business Media

This post is the conclusion of the Out Front Blog's dialogue with Michael Lamb from Echelon Business Media and GayFranchise.com.

4. As we head into the holiday season, how are LGBT businesses communicating with consumers? How can or should LGBT consumers be responding?

Lamb: I have always said that LGBT money is the key to attaining full LGBT equal rights. The holidays are the season of giving. Many LGBT non-profits host big fund raising efforts during this time.Therefore, it is a great time to align your business as a donor of these charities and post it on your blog or Web site. On top of the fact that you are helping the community, LGBT consumers will identify with the emotional appeal your company is presenting and respond favorably.
 
5. What resources, besides Echelon and GayFranchise, can help LGBT businesses and their communications this holiday season and moving forward?

Lamb: If your LGBT-owned business has not joined your local LGBT Chamber of Commerce, now would be a great time. Most chambers host a holiday gala where networking is ideal to meet the right people. Most events also look for sponsors. As a sponsor, your company’s logo would be included in all communications with the members. 
 
6. Any other thoughts regarding LGBT businesses and LGBT communications?

Lamb: Stay informed. As an LGBT business owner, you have an added advantage of marketing to a very special niche market. On EchelonMagazine.com, we publish a free weekly newsletter on LGBT business. Aside from breaking news, we feature other successful LGBT entrepreneurs and additional opportunities that can further add to your company’s marketing efforts.

The community as a whole has historically undervalued the business side of the LGBT community. As ENDA, The Employment Non-Discrimination Act, makes its way through Congress, we are on the precipice of a burst of notoriety. Make sure that you bring your business out of the closet, if it isn’t already. The rewards will be endless.

It's Our Business: A Conversation with Echelon Business Media's Michael Lamb on LGBT Businesses in the Recession and Recovery

While consumers may be making their lists and checking them twice this time of year, businesses are already looking ahead to 2010. And you better believe after this year, their checking budgets -- more than twice.

With near daily coverage of the economy and its effect on businesses, media largely overlooked how the year's recession uniquely impacted LGBT businesses and franchises. To get some greater insights, the Out Front Blog thought we'd have a virtual cup of coffee and chat with the editor of some of the leading publications and resources for LGBT businesses, Michael Lamb, editor-in-chief of Echelon Business Media and president of GayFranchise.com.

1. It was tough year for businesses of all kinds, but what specifically unique challenges (especially communication challenges) did LGBT businesses face?

Lamb: LGBT businesses, like all businesses suffered more challenges than usual this year due to the recession.

During these times, every company is looking to maximize their sales by spending the least amount of money. 

Target marketing has always been the route for many companies as a consequence of an economic downturn. The LGBT community in particular is a very desirable target as they possess a high disposable income and many households do not include children. A business professional identifies as an “LGBT” business owner to further connect with the community and entice these customers to buy from a like-minded company. 
 
Fortunately, the LGBT community has a knack for survival and a penchant for technology according to market research. I would postulate that these talents have been utilized well by LGBT business owners.
 
With less advertising dollars on hand, social media has also grown into a major part of every company’s marketing strategy and understanding how tech-savvy the LGBT community is, could blossom into a gift from God for LGBT business owners.
 
Therefore, the biggest communication challenge LGBT business owners faced was to understand how social media works and how to integrate it into their ongoing business plan.
 
2. Over the past few years, how have companies changed in the way they communicate/interact with gay employees or gay business owners?

Lamb: Overall, the divide in communications between mainstream businesses and the LGBT community has lessened. With every year that passes, there are more corporations achieving 100 percent in HRC’s Corporate Equality Index, more companies are signing on with the National Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce to do business with certified LGBT business owners and all of these activities translate into an increased level of acceptance and equality.
 
3. What are your predictions for LGBT businesses/franchises and LGBT communications in 2010?

Lamb: The world is a much different place with President Obama in office despite recent LGBT criticism. Just by being the leader of our country, he puts out a message to the world that it is ok to be different. With that said, I think we are going to see many more companies advertising directly to the LGBT community. On our sister site, www.gayfranchise.com, we have already accumulated over 75 concepts in our directory and we foresee it being doubled in 2010.

Check back later today for the conclusion of our conversation with Michael. In the meantime, we'd love to hear your predictions for the year ahead.

Don't Ask, Don't Sing?

Gang--hope everyone had a great holiday weekend. Too much turkey, not enough shopping, but bygones.

It's been one of those weeks getting back into the swing of things, so I'm going to share a bunch of random musings:

• Adam Lambert/American Music Awards: First of all-- what a boring awards show. Yes, J-Lo fell. Janet lipsynched the opening. Kelly Clarkson rocked it out. But, Adam Lambert kissed and grossed a boy and the world fell apart! 1,500 calls to ABC! Good Morning America canceled his concert! CBS Early Show booked him but didn't show his controversial performance! Double standard? Maybe. But, shame on Good Morning America for canceling on him-- especially when the network actively incorporates the LGBT community in their primetime shows. And double shame for CBS for capitalizing on the controversy but not showing his performance. What did I think about the performance? Much ado about nothing-- especially the vocals :(
• Mrs. Keaton is a lesbian! In an overdue return to the pop culture radar, Meredith Baxter (aka Family Ties matriarch) came out on the Today Show as a lesbian. I don't know how Alex P. and the gang will react to this. But, kudos to Meredith for taking the gossip hounds to task by coming out on her own terms, and doing it privately with her family first before addressing it nationally.
• Cleveland is still rocking out as a result of My Games Rock! On Monday, Cleveland City Council unanimously passed legislation that expands the city's existing anti-bias laws to bar businesses from denying jobs or housing to people because of their gender identity or gender expression. It's great recognition for our transgendered community. Ohio is fast-becoming the LGBT mecca we dreamed. Here's hoping for more progress.
• Twilight vs. Precious. Precious wins, hands down.

Happy first December Friday to all. Speak to you next week.

(Photo Courtest of NY Daily News)

Can Hate Ever Help?

Tuesday marked the 21st observance of World AIDS Day. A plethora of companies, schools, organizations, and yes, even my favorite Web sites (well, some of them…) took action to raise awareness of the AIDS pandemic, which currently affects an estimated 33 million people worldwide. One of my favorites, Twitter, teamed up with Bono’s Project (RED) Campaign, providing users with the #red hashtag, allowing them to show support by automatically changing the color of their tweets.

As I took a moment to enjoy the number of Twitterers tweeting and retweeting support for World AIDS Day, I came across a particularly interesting discussion between Megan Phelps-Roper and a few celebrity Tweeters, including my I-Love-The-80s-crush, Michael Ian Black. Phelps-Roper is the granddaughter of Fred Phelps, the founder of the Westboro Baptist Church (WBC), a Kansas-based group mostly known for picketing the funerals of soldiers or institutions or individuals they think support homosexuality.

While Phelps and the WBC are not known for being the most tactful communicators, I couldn’t help but be shocked by the plethora of hateful and defamatory language Megan used in her tweets about AIDS and the gay community.  When I finally pulled myself away from Twitter, I immediately launched into an intense Googling session and while examining old issues of The Advocate online, I came across a reader comment stating that Phelps and the WBC are actually helping to bring the LGBT and straight communities together.

I immediately scoffed at the idea that a group like the WBC, with its over-the-top public shenanigans, could ever do anything to further support for the LGBT community – but then I started thinking that maybe the use of such provocative, nasty language IS helping. Think about it – the Out Front Team has blogged repeatedly about the importance of language, often discussing how certain terms or phrases help to create and cultivate the idea that LGBT people are “other” or “different.” Many of the words or phrases we’ve discussed are seemingly innocuous – lifestyle, taken out of the context described here, is still a socially acceptable word. If I tried to explain to certain family members or friends that using the term “lifestyle” is insulting to the LGBT community, they may not understand it, yet they can more easily recognize and agree that shouting “God Hates Fags” IS offensive.

Is it possible that the use of over-the-top, provocative language can actually bring LGBT and straight communities closer together because more people can agree that such words and phrases are offensive? Does this help raise awareness or does it come at too high of a cost? I’d love to know your thoughts.

Say What You Mean, Mean What You Say

E-mail and Google expanded from nouns to verbs also. Weblog, like the one you're reading now, transitioned into blog. What about the meaning of gay or marriage? These are just some examples of how daily the vibrant and organic English language changes shapes, as words emerge, die out and take new meaning.

I'd like to direct you to two previous posts. One of our most popular posts was Ben Finzel's final thoughts on eight words that shouldn't be used in LGBT communications. In it, he explored the negative nuances of such casually used terms as lifestyle, sexual preference and choice. He showed the implied fallacy these words carry and the importance of educating family, friends and foes on their inadequacies.

The other is my post from April where I shared the story of Peter Dubuque and Steve Kleinedler. Steve lost his husband Peter of several years. Having lived as a legally married couple in Boston, Steve shared his experiences at the loss of his husband and the respect and normalcy with which Boston's community treated him.

Steve has become a good friend (thanks Facebook) and follower of the Out Front Blog, and recently shared another insightful piece he wrote on the the constantly evolving English language, specifically when it comes to words surrounding marriage these days. You can read the entire article here in the Advocate.

As editor of The American Heritage Dictionary, Steve defined the job of dictionaries as "primarily to describe how language is used, not to dictate how it should be used." He goes on to discuss the importance of recognizing the more inclusive aspects of "marriage" and "widower" in today's society.

It may seem insignificant, but together there small nuances are helping states unlike Massachusetts and Iowa slowly change towards a more inclusive, equal and productive American society. I encourage you to read Steve's piece entirely and let us know your thoughts here on the Out Front Blog.

Look for a post later today on our thoughts on today's World AIDS Day.

Give Thanks: LGBT Communications

It’s the Monday before a brief Thanksgiving break. Your dreams are taking you to a place of turkey, pumpkin pie and shopping heaven. It’s lovely there isn’t it? You’re reminded of family gatherings and that indescribable warmth of being home. For some of us in the LGBT community, this holiday season brings heartfelt and heartbreaking stories. 

In preparation for holiday fun, I got to thinking about the things I'm grateful for. Here are a few (in the world of LGBT communications, in no particular order):

1. Washington Blade – After 40 years of delivering LGBT news, the Washington Blade shut its doors after its parent company, Window Media, filed for bankruptcy. Thank you to the Blade for sharing LGBT news when others didn’t. Emerging at a time when the majority of the LGBT community was still in the closet, the Blade provided us with an outlet, a unified message to stand behind. It armed us for action and gave us a voice. The Blade’s editor, Kevin Naff, intends to launch a new LGBT publication. We look forward to seeing the new paper Kevin! For more on The Blade check out Michael's post from last week. 
2. Young advocates - Fifth grader, Will Phillips and 17-year-old, James Neiley. Will Philips recently received much attention after he refused to say the pledge of allegiance to a country that discriminates against the LGBT community. James Neiley, a volunteer for Outright Vermont gave a moving and heartfelt speech to the Vermont Senate during the equal marriage rights debate. Cultivating young advocates is essential to the battle for equal rights. They provide a unique perspective and an unmatched passion for change. Young advocates fuel our progress. For a more intriguing list of the top 100 honorees by Out, go here. 
3. And finally, Lady Gaga. Though many people may call her odd, I do appreciate Lady Gaga and all that she brings to the music industry and to pop culture. Lady Gaga takes any opportunity to be vocal about homophobia and fight for equal rights. She thanked God and the gays in her MTV VMA award win, performed at Pride Festivals and the HRC gala, and walked with us at the National Equality March in October. Ra-ra Ga-Ga! 

So tell us, what are a few things that you’re grateful for this year?

Blade of Glory

I'm blogging this Friday from the nation's capital. Hanging out with my colleagues here and enjoying the town I once called home.

When I first moved to D.C. back in 2004, I was on the cusp of finally coming out to my family. Was D.C. the catalyst? Probably not. But, coming out in an evironment that accepted- no embraced- the LGBT community was certainly an incentive.

An integral part of the LGBT community here is (now sadly "was") the Washington Blade. This was a must read for fabulous Washingtonians (or in my case, Washingtonian transplant). You could read about social issues. Hot parties. Upcoming events. And you could always count on some biting social commentary from a gay or two.

When the news broke this week that the Blade was closing down, I became immensely sad. Sad about the continuing decay of the media industry. Sad that the LGBT community will have one less "gay rag" to follow. But mostly, I was sad that this week, somewhere another Washingtonian transplant who is looking to come out has one less "voice" to cheer him on.

But fear not-- in breaking news, several former employees of the 40-year-old gay and lesbian newspaper said that they plan to launch a new, more modest version of the paper today. Publisher Lynne Brown and Editor Kevin Naff said in a letter posted online that "the staff of the paper remains united," and currently is working on a volunteer basis.

With layoffs happening across all media sectors, what will happen to traditional journalism outlets? Clearly I am a fan of blogs. But, I'm also a fan of the smell and feel of a fresh newspaper. Heck, I was the editor of one in high school. It's how I fell in love with writing and communications. I hope that while the economy continues to spiral, somehow, we can maintain the original "fourth estate" while embracing the new virtual estate.

Up next- Friday musings:

• Ok. I was just getting back into the world of Oprah. She entices me this week with her interview with Governor-Vice Presidential Candidate-Hockey Mom- Author Sarah Palin. Then, she teases me even more with an interview with the cast of Nine (so excited!!). Today? She calls it quits. Big O, I love you so.
• Tomorrow, I'm seeing "Twilight: New Moom." I saw the first one on a plane back from Europe in the comfort of my own seat. Now, I'll have to see it with a bunch of screaming fans at the theater. Oh wait, that's just me screaming. I know I'll regret not seeing Precious.
• Who do you think should become the new anchor of "Good Morning America?" I'm loving this behind the scenes gossip and backstabbing. My money is on Georgie to get the gig- but I just don't see him comfortably interviewing Dancing with the Stars castoffs or the cast of Lost (Tuesdays, 9PM, starting Feb. 2). But, who do I want to get it? Paging Anderson Cooper...or Kiki Couric anyone?

Happy Weekend. And since I'll be stuffing my face with leftovers next week, Happy Thanksgiving!

School Projects and Protests

This past weekend I took a vacation to Atlanta to visit childhood friends and relax with mindless and entertaining activities. While perusing BuzzFeed in the beautiful 70-degree November weather that makes all Chicagoans excited, my friends and I came across photos, videos and comments on "35 Amazing Science Fair Projects." You can see for yourself why the post had us laughing heartily and talking about our own experiments in grade school.

Then the laughter stopped. I saw the above picture of a young student's project called AIDS: The Gay Plague. While his procedure and hypothesis are unintelligible, his "results" are clear. Homosexuality and bisexuality result in "the gay plague," while heterosexuality and whatever he was implying with "Man on Horse" are safe.

Flash Mobs: Communicating Silently

Over the past couple of months, I’ve seen many organizations attempt the infamous flash mob. Though flash mobs emerged only six years ago, they have stopped society in our tracks forcing us to stop, listen and watch. The latest flash mobs have been used to successfully promote a cause, utilizing word-of-mouth. 

The latest flash mob occurred in Ohio, lead by a group of students from the University of Cincinnati. The goal – “to demonstrate the effects of harried and inaction.” Last Tuesday, a group of 25 students wore duck tape and t-shirts the quote – “Are you listening?” The quote was from Lady Gaga at the October gay rights march in Washington, D.C. Blake Jelley, a sophomore at UC said, “Flash mobbing is a different form of protest that uses actions and body language as opposed to words.“It’s much more effective because most people haven’t seen it – most people are used to seeing protesters with signs and screaming. When people take the time to watch you they take the time to absorb your actions and think about what you’re doing.”

Check out the video below.

This specific flash mob was in response to Maine’s vote to repeal equal marriage legislation. What makes flash mobs effective is their ability to interrupt your reality and force you into another’s reality. For example, the UC flash mob obstructed traffic and exercised ever-powerful non-verbal communications. 

Communications is rooted in both what we say and what we don’t say. This can also be said for our LGBT community. Our visibility and presence is equally as important as our voice and our ability to impact change. For companies and organizations that are seeking ways for inclusion, sometimes it’s not about saying anything at all – it’s just about opening the door to listen. 

Here's to the LGBT who Lunch...

It's been some time since I last provided an update on Gay Games 2014 and Cleveland + Akron's journey with the Federation. It's Friday, so why not?

This week marked another milestone in our "My Games Rock" story. On Wednesday, I had the great honor of participating in a luncheon panel discussion at the Cleveland City Club titled "The Gay Games 2014." For those who have never been to the Cleveland City Club (like me before this panel), let me give you a little background. The City Club is the oldest continuous free speech forum in the country, renowned for its tradition of debate and discussion. This place gets presidential candidates. Robert Kennedy spoke here and gave a moving eulogy of Martin Luther King, Jr., just weeks before his own assassination. This stage is sacred.

So, imagined how overwhelmed our panel was to have the opportunity to speak about something so important to us on such a visible platform. City Councilman Joe Cimperman, a rockstar in his own right, moderated the discussion in front of a sold-out crowd.

A sold-out crowd who came to the City Club to hear about the Gay Games.

From three gay men and two straight allies.

For more than an hour, people listened to our story, asked us questions, and hopefully walked away enlightened about not only the Gay Games and the Federation itself, but how important the LGBT community is here at home. The opportunity was a perfect case study in marketing-- it provided us an opportunity to speak directly about LGBT issues and actions to an audience who may not have had us on their radar before. And, if we changed one mind as a result, that's a success.

We were also fortunate that day to have representatives from Team Cologne in town to promote the 2010 Gay Games and register local participants to take part next year. We held a registration/information event at the beautiful Tregoning Gallery, and Team Cologne gave a presentation on how exciting and beautiful the Gay Games will be in Germany next year. Cleveland was the last stop on a U.S. tour for Team Cologne-- they went to LGBT markets all over the U.S. to promote their Games. Again, a great marketing strategy-- bringing Cologne to the U.S. so the U.S. can come to Cologne. I know I'll be there!

Now, back to the previously scheduled Friday Pop Culture musings:

• Gossip Girl: First, Chuck Bass kissed a boy. Now, a menage a trois? This show is sinking. FAST.
• Melrose Place. Heather Locklear as Amanda. Returns next week. Thank you TV Gods.
• Glee-- This week's exchange between Kurt and his father was priceless. More priceless? The Diva-off on "Defying Gravity." I now see that song as a gay anthem.

 Talk next week.

Media Mentions & Mishaps

While the pleasure of daily reading the printed newspaper with a cup of coffee is largely gone, I still get excited when major dailies and magazines write on LGBT individuals and trends, specifically when it's outside of the heated political coverage around major issues and inequalities facing our community. And yet, as we've highlighted on here many times, companies and media still struggle with understanding the complications and sensitivities around issues, at times making and correcting blunders.

The first article that caught my eye was USA Today's article last week on gay and lesbian families. The article reviewed findings from Clark University researcher Abbie Goldberg's new book Lesbian and Gay Parents and Their Children: Research on the Family Life Cycle, as well as other studies on same-sex families and their straight counterparts. Highlights from the article include:

• Sexual orientation of a parent has very little to do with their parenting
• Children of gay couples have similar mental health, self-esteem, life satisfaction, social skills and number of friends as children of straight couples
• 31 percent of same-sex couples who identify as spouses are raising children as compared with 43 percent of straight couples
• Children of gay couples are teased more about their families and their sexualities, but are not teased more overall

The Ladies of Television

The lesbian community has always been slightly more muted than our gay male counterparts. Though our male counterparts dominate in mainstream media, and even LGBT media at that, ladies – I’m here to say that we have something to celebrate this week. 

After years of waiting for lesbian visibility in the media, today – we’ll celebrate not one, not two but three women. 

Over a year ago, I posted about Rachel Maddow’s entrance into the media landscape. In that post, we asked ourselves two questions (a) will Maddow have a seat of her own and (b) will America be ready for an openly gay host. The answer to both was yes. Or rather that I presume the latter was indeed true. Regardless, I was ready and I haven’t been disappointed once. 

It was this past Saturday and the outlook for today that really sparked my excitement for lesbian visibility. The unapologetic and opinionated Wanda Sykes premiered her show Saturday night on FOX. Wanda follows a predominately male landscape of late-night talk show hosts. Her entrance into this space is not only important a powerful statement for women comedians, but presents an opportunity for African American women and lesbians alike. Positive visibility is essential, and Wanda Sykes is a positive role model that we’ve needed for some time. “I'm proud to be a woman. I'm proud to be a black woman, and I'm proud to be gay," Wanda Sykes said in a TV Guide interview. "That's the way people should be able to live their lives.” 

Today, Oprah welcomes Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi to her stage.  Ellen has become one of the most loved television hosts of all time. Three million people have welcomed her into their homes, five days a week since 2003. If you talk about lesbian visibility, Ellen has become the icon for our community. Today’s interview is more than just another Oprah moment, it’s our moment. So the next time that I complain about lack of lesbian visibility, do me a favor and remind of this week. 

A Text in Time

This past Wednesday, my morning started with a text that said, "One day we'll each be able to get married and you'll be the greatest husband ever."

As I turned on the news to see the positive results from Kalamazoo and disappointing outcome in Maine, I frustratingly laughed. Standing in the living, watching the news on digital cable, holding an iPhone in my hand as it played digital music to help shake away the sleepiness, I re-read that message from my best friend that reminded me of my denied rights, my inequal status. All the technological progress and results of modern society surrounded me, yet the note and the news echoed a message of fighting for human rights -- struggles similar to history book examples from 1776 and other past eras!

Before Wednesday, I was preparing a post on two issues around these concepts outside of United States that personally touched me. My good friend, Andrew Marin, posted on his blog about the pending bill in Uganda right now that allows the government to imprison or go as far as legally killing gays and lesbians for simply being who they are. There is a link on Andrew's post with more information and direct verbiage from the bill. I was comforted to see a growing online Facebook advocacy cry, but that is far from the amount of communications that must happen around this.

SkyWest: The Not So Gay Friendly Skies

Last June, Gilbert Caldwell married David Farrell, his partner of 34 years, becoming one of 18,000 same-sex couples who married in California after the state Supreme Court legalized same-sex unions.  In accordance with California law, same-sex marriages performed in the state between June and November 2008 are to be legally recognized, meaning that same-sex spouses and domestic partners are to be treated the same as heterosexual married couples in employment, housing, insurance and commerce.

Gilbert, registered as Farrell’s domestic partner since 2002, has worked for SkyWest in Palm Springs, California, for the past five years as a baggage attendant.  According to the San Francisco Chronicle, Caldwell says that SkyWest is breaking California state law by refusing to give his husband the free fares it provides to heterosexual spouses.  According to SkyWest, Farrell is his “travel companion,” which means he’s entitled to fly at a discounted rate but not for free. Travel companion? I’m a little confused…travel companion? Hmmm.  

One of the perks to working for an airline, other than my own personal desire to wear a kicky uniform a la the defunct Braniff Airlines, is not having to pay the exorbitant fares. SkyWest would seem to agree, as the first benefit on its career benefits page states that “one of the many benefits of working at SkyWest is flying FREE.” It goes on to state that effective upon employment, employees, spouses or domestic partners have unlimited space-available travel privileges, as well as substantially reduced fares with most other carriers. There is the requisite disclaimer that “all travel related privileges are subject to eligibility requirements and other restrictions,” yet for the life of me, I cannot find anything on the page that discusses those requirements or restrictions.  Again, I say, more emphatically, …hmmm.

A few days ago, Caldwell, and his legal team, Lambda Legal, sent a letter to SkyWest (and Delta Airlines) warning them that their treatment of gay employees’ spouses and registered domestic partners violates not only the airline's own policies but also California law.
 
Caldwell’s complaint is one of the first to come to light by any of the same-sex couples that married in the short window before Prop 8 was passed in California. If Caldwell and Farrell are legally married under the ever watchful eyes of the law, then why isn’t Caldwell allowed to give his husband the free flight opportunities that his straight married colleagues are? Stepping away from the social and legal issue here regarding same-sex marriage, let’s focus on SkyWest as a company and what exactly it is communicating to its straight and gay employees, as well as its vast consumer audience? As a straight ally, I’m certainly less likely to want to fly on SkyWest knowing that it refuses to grant the same privileges to its employees based on sexual orientation.  So, SkyWest, if you want my business or to tap into the vast buying power of the LGBT community, may I suggest you take a look at this posting?  I think you just might recognize some of the companies on that list…

Free to be you, me and ze

As the Out Front team has stated, the LGBT community celebrated some huge milestones in October. The last week in October was no exception as President Obama signed the Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act, extending the definition of federal hate crimes to include attacks motivated by sex, sexual orientation, gender identity, and disability. If you haven’t gotten a chance to read it, please take a few moments to look at Michael Murphy’s last blog posting discussing his thoughts about the bill, and his personal experiences dealing with the aftermath of both events.

While the Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act is monumental for many reasons, in this post, I’d like to focus on what it means for the transgender community.  According to the National Center for Transgender Equality, it is the first protections for transgender people in U.S. history. It is the first time that the U.S. government is coming out publicly to assert that violence against transgender people is wrong and will not be tolerated.

Does this mean an end to violence against transgender individuals? Unfortunately, probably not…at least not today, or tomorrow. What it does mean is an increase in communication and awareness– educating the public and law enforcement officials about the common hate-motivated violence against transgender people, and explaining that violence against anyone is not just unacceptable, but illegal and now punishable by federal law. As we have seen with other social and cultural movements, communication, awareness and education are the first steps towards enacting lasting change.

Since we’re discussing milestone moments in the transgender community, I’d like to call out that last week the College of William and Mary, the nation’s second oldest university, announced its first transgender homecoming queen, Jessee Vasold. While I still bear the sting of NOT being chosen as my school’s homecoming queen (note: still waiting on that recount, North Warren Regional High School), how amazing is it that Vasold, who identifies as gender-queer, was nominated by her peers as the college’s best example of school pride?

Additionally, as we’re always talking about the power of words and the importance of language, I’d like to pay special attention to Vasold’s preference for using gender-neutral pronouns like ze or zir, rather than he, she or her, him. I know I feel relatively confident, especially after this post, in speaking to and about the LGBT community, yet I have to admit that I’ve never used the pronouns ze or zir in referring to transgender or genderqueer people.

Lastly, in a post dedicated to the transgender community, I’d be remiss if I didn’t mention Chaz Bono, and his very public transition from female to male.  Did anyone catch his Entertainment Tonight interview last week? I’d love to hear your thoughts about his journey, and what it means for other transgender individuals that may be going through similar transformations.

Opening Doors to the HIV/AIDS Conversation

Last Friday, we celebrated the end of a 22-year legislation that prevented HIV-positive people from entering the United States. President Obama announced the elimination of this ban at a signing ceremony for the Ryan White HIV/AIDS Treatment Extension Act.

The United States is one of only a dozen counties that still bars entry to people living with HIV. This action by the administration tears down the stigma of the disease, opening new doors for communicating prevention and treatment. HIV/AIDS is a global issue and one that we must think about in that way. In order to combat this epidemic, the U.S. finally is taking a major step in elevating this very important conversation. 

Physicians for Human Rights CEO Frank Donaghue said, "Today is a great day for human rights and for people living with AIDS, their friends and their families … The HIV Travel Ban made the United States a pariah in human rights circles, and harmed our reputation as a world leader of HIV/AIDS prevention, treatment and care.”

Additionally, President Obama also signed a legislation to extend federally funded HIV/AIDS treatment for thousands of underinsured low-income Americans, including a focus on minorities.

What do you think this legislation means for the LGBT community?

Two Heroes, One Legacy

I remember October of 1998.

Specifically, I remember October 12, 1998. I was a college freshman at Ohio University, and during that week, I watched the tragic news unfold of Matthew Shepard's torture and death in Laramie, Wyoming.

To say I was shocked is putting it mildly.

For the first 18 years of my life, being out and gay was not even on my radar. Of course, I had thought about it, but I also recognized that I lived in Ohio and wasn't sure how out, and safe, I could be. In high school, I was one of 120 students in my class. At Ohio University, I was one of 20,000. The ability to be lost in a crowd gave me the confidence to explore the LGBT lifestyle.

Matthew's unimaginable experience hit me about two months into college. It was a rude awakening for me. Call it ignorance, or call it isolation, but I was absolutely frightened at the thought that my life, my being, could be the cause of such hatred and violence in others. What happened to Matthew forced my own closet doors, which were slowly opening, to be shut and locked for some time.

Earlier that year, on June 7, three white men chained James Byrd, an African American, to a pickup truck and dragged him to his death. The outpouring of sadness across all communities for Byrd's death was simply overwhelming.

Flash forward to October 28, 2009. President Obama signs the "Matthew Shepard and James Byrd Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act." The law basically expands existing hate-crime protections to outlaw attacks based on sexual orientation or gender, in addition to race, color religion or national origin. In his speech following the ceremonial signing, the President referenced a powerful statistic-- during the past 10 years, there have been more than 12,000 hate crimes committed because of sexual orientation. And those are just the crimes that are reported. There are undoubtedly thousands -- or dare I say it, millions-- of others that go unreported because of a fear of law enforcement reaction.

Will the law create a safer place for the LGBT community in the U.S.? It's a giant leap in the right direction. What needs to follow is a grassroots campaign among LGBT organizations and local law enforcement agencies working together to establish clear, two-way communications strategies and create a safe haven for all people violated because of just being themselves.

Thank you Matthew and James. Your time on this earth was cut so tragically short, but your legacy will live on forever.

 

Chiefs Player Tweets Too Much

The leaves are changing colors and the sound of cheering rings in the air. Yes, it’s football season. For those like myself who are football widows, Sundays become a day of refuge and, well, errands. However, last Sunday I came across an alarming and very local, football story that did catch my eye. 

Though the Kansas City Chiefs aren’t known for their athletic prowess and they aren’t regularly seen on national news or glossy covers, one Chief’s player did make major headlines for something else. Chief’s running back, Larry Johnson, posted a few negative comments about his coach and inflammatory remarks about gays via Twitter. Now, I could jump in and talk about the importance of an online governance plan, but I’ll save that for later.

Johnson not only used gay slurs online, he also made another derogatory comment to reporters, after refusing to speak with them. Let’s just say, it was the other F word. For those Kansas Citians, Johnson’s outburst doesn’t really come as a surprise. However, his discriminatory statements are unnecessary, inexcusable and unforgiveable. 

Day in and day out, we stress the importance of communications and their role in perpetuating negative stereotypes. Social media allows such ignorance to survive. With so many voices and messages, social media also has the power to positively impact many with just over 100 characters. It is our responsibility to ensure these social media platforms are utilized in a respectful way. 

Furthermore, for local media covering the story, please don’t forget about his anti-gay messages. This is more than just a story about an upset player talking negatively about his coach. Media has a responsibility to report the news, giving readers/viewers the whole story. Lack of media representation continues to be a challenge for the LGBT community, and this is another example of needed progress.

For more information, check out GLAAD's call for the NFL to speak out against Johnson. One quick update, as of this morning, Johnson has been suspended for two weeks. 

As the Gay World Turns...

Anyone else ecstatic that it's Friday?

I'm in such a joyous mood. Not only because it's the end of the week, but also because of some important milestones achieved this week in the LGBT community, both here in Ohio and around the U.S. Among the highlights:

• Legislation has recently been passed in Ohio that allows domestic partners the right to make a decision regarding organ donation in the event their partner passes. The loss of a loved one is tragic, but the loss of an opportunity to save another human being is even more tragic. Kudos to the Ohio House for updating the Uniform Anatomical Gift Act to give us the opportunity to pay it forward.
• Remember when I gave a shout out to Kathy Greenlee for being appointed as the Assistant Secretary for the Administration on Aging(AoA)? Get this-- she's already making some huge differences for LGBT seniors. On Wednesday, the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services announced plansto establish the nation's first national resource center to assist communities across the country in their efforts to provide services and supports for the aging LGBT community. What does that mean, you type? It means that the new Resource Center for LGBT Elders will provide information, assistance, and resources for both LGBT organizations and mainstream aging services providers to create culturally sensitive services for this community. Let's face it--we are getting older (according to HHS, there are between 1.5 and 4 million of us out there age 60 and older). Hurrah to AoA for establishing this. But it's just the first step. Getting the word out there, and getting the right organizations to accept the challenge, will be a huge undertaking. My advice-- work with the LGBT community to establish the center. Talk to us about the services we need. Ask us about the organizations we feel could run this center. Let us help you tailor the grant process so the right people get the funding to offer the right services. And, make this Resource Center an incredible online tool with the capacity for social networking. Often, the service that we need the most is a forum to share with each other. Take it to that level. But, let's all agree that we heart Kathy!

Ally Up!

October is shaping up to be a BIG month for the LGBT community and its allies. Not only is October LGBT History Month, we recently celebrated National Coming Out Day and more than 200,000 people journeyed to Washington, D.C. to support the National Equality March. Oh, and it’s Out Front’s birthday! Did you send us a gift?

What you may not know is that this week is the fifth-annual Ally Week. Run by the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN), Ally Week consists of a week-long list of activities to stimulate conversation about LGBT issues, rally straight supporters and to persuade people to join as allies against anti-LGBT bullying and harassment in schools. Students and teachers are encouraged to sign the Ally Week pledge, which reads:

I believe all students, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity/expression deserve to feel safe and supported.
That means I pledge to:
•  Not use anti-LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender) language or slurs.
•  Intervene, if I safely can, in situations where students are being harassed.
•  Support efforts to end bullying and harassment.

LGBT youth face numerous unique challenges – homelessness, violence, alienation and often, sexual abuse. According to the GLSEN’s National School Climate Study, a terrifyingly large percentage (nearly 9 out of 10) of LGBT students experience verbal harassment at school. Article like this claim that things are no different more than 10 years after the death of Matthew Shephard, yet events like Ally Week and the recent passage of the North Carolina School Violence Act (the first in the South!) provide a huge step forward in creating safe, supportive school environments for LGBT youth.

Sticks and Stones...and Homophobia

Homophobia has been at the center of stories coming out of the U.K. this week, both of with jumped off my screen at me. Today, BBC reported a recent study from the Metropolitan Police (Met) that found a nearly 20 percent increase in homophobic crimes in London. There have been 1,192 homophobic offenses through September this year, including the paralysing of a 21-year-old man after multiple stabbings outside a bar and gangs of kids with bottles and sticks attacking people. That's up from the 1,008 the previous year. I frankly don't know which number is worse -- a 20 percent increase in violence or nearly 1,200 people attacked!

Two days early, the AP ran a story about Daily Mail columnist Jan Moir's piece last Friday on the death of Boyzone singer Stephen Galey -- and the more than 21,000 complaints it received for being "homophobic" and "insensitive." Moir's column asserted the singer's death as "not, by any yardstick, a natural one," and said he died in "sleazy" circumstances. The Press Complaints Commission is reaching out to the newspaper, as their code practice binds all newspapers to adhere to the commission's code of practice which includes respect for privacy and avoiding perjorative references.

These stories reminded me of the false childhood "stick and stones" rhyme. Sticks, glass bottles, knives and words -- all can incite thousands and cause immense pain. For a country typically seen as more LGBT friendly and forward, the recent news from London begs the question: have we made progress there anymore than we have here in America? And if not, how do we address homophobia -- is it stopping the violence or stopping the words?

Frankly, I don't believe many people, no matter what side of an issue they fall, would argue that paralyzation from stabbing by another human being is reprehensible and against human decency. Yet, words seem more ephemeral, less dramatic, yet I believe this is where communicators and allies must be inserting a transformative message of love.

In America, we are blessed with the freedom free speech in addition to many other freedoms. Yet, we must respect this freedom and understand the power with which it holds. Simple words, possibly even those in a newspaper, can lead to actions, possibly for good or for bad. What was spoken or even thought could ultimately end with the ending of a human life. As LGBT communicators, we must raise awareness of homophobic remarks and actions, instead inserting messages of understanding and cooperation. For these are the message that translate cultures and continents.

Better Late Than Never

I'm beginning to believe that I'm not great with birthdays. Just ask my best friend and former blogger, Rich Ferraro, whose September birthday present is still sitting on my desk at home. And as our team (no longer under direction of our founder and blogger extraordinaire, Ben Finzel) focused intently on the LGBT communication issues surrounding National Coming Out Day and the National Equality March, we completely missed the third birthday of the Out Front Blog!

So, we hope our thoughts and those of our FH colleagues on the following two questions will be a pleasing surprise -- much like that belated card with money or present you get from your friend weeks after your actual celebration!

LAPD Takes a Stand

We hold respect for our men in blue, but today, there was a sense of pride for their commitment to progress. Last week, Robert Saltzman, a member of the Los Angeles Board of Police Commissioners posted a blog on LAObserved.com. 

In Saltzman's blog, he recounts a Saturday morning LAPD Explorer Academy orientation day. The program teaches at-risk youth skills to help improve their communities and relationships. This Explorer Program is administered by a city contractor that subcontracts with the Boy Scouts to administer programs.  The problem - the Boy Scouts position on discrimination does not comply with the city's non-discrimination laws. The solution - the City Attorney issued an opinion that granted the LAPD to require adoptation of non-discrimination policies to adhere to the City's law. 

Saltzman's blog gives us an insight into the progress of the LAPD, as well as enforcement offices across the nation. As an organization that seeks to only benefit and protect our communities, policies that support this edict make sense. 

Be sure to read Saltzman's blog. 

Best. Line. Ever.

OK-- I apologize.

I recognize that "National Coming Out Day" was on Sunday. And it's Friday. But stick with me...

We all have our own unique coming out stories-- or have heard from our LGBT friends about their unique experience. Mine involved lots of tears, lots of questions, and lots of laundry. But, that's for another day, and another blog.

You know I like television (even using the word "like" is putting it lightly). And ABC has been my network of choice lately--except when I am following those hot messes known as the "Real Housewives" on Bravo. I've been a big fan of Grey's Anatomy since the world was first introduced to "McDreamy." Even during the times of "Denny-gate," I've stuck with the show.

Right now, it's going through a bit of a creative slump. Too many characters, too many storylines. But the one supercouple that sustains my interest is Callie and Arizona, the lesbian powerhouse duo on the show. I like this couple for several reasons-- including the fact that they represent a demographic rarely seen on network cable.